Or maybe you want more information on how to make it pleasurable and safe? He repeatedly asked me if I was ok or wanted him to stop. Just make sure it still sounds like you to an extent. Just as you would cuddle after real sex, say some sweet, soft words to your lover and let him know how amazing he makes you feel. If you are using a female condom it can be put in up to eight hours before sex.
This doesn't mean you should touch yourself -- unless you want to -- but it does mean that you should start getting in a sexy mental space. Once the penis is inside, you can move your bodies so that the penis pushes into the vagina and then pulls partly out again. Start gently stroking your own body and let your lover know what you're doing. The main things to consider are whether it feels right, and whether you and your partner are both sure. Ordering him or her around will be extra hot. Get off the phone after a little while -- if you want to have a normal conversation with your lover, do it a bit later, so you can enjoy the sexy feeling after your dirty talk date. Do what comes naturally and feels good - being slow and gentle is a good idea to start with so you can make sure you are both comfortable. Don't be shy -- tell your lover how turned on you are just from talking to him and thinking about him next to you. It takes time to get to know what works for you sexually — and for your partner — and sex can be enjoyable whether you climax or not. If it helps, you can lightly caress your body to get in the mood. As in real sex, it's pretty difficult to climax at the same time as your partner. It can take a bit of time to get used to the sensation of sex, and some women can find it a little uncomfortable or painful at first. If you are both ready to have vaginal sex, the arousal created through foreplay will help the penis enter the vagina more easily. Don't be shy -- tell your partner when you're touching yourself, and let him or her know how it's making you feel. This is why foreplay is important. As you're taking off your shirt, you can ask, "Are you sure you want me to take off my shirt? Talk about how your body looks in your clothes, and mention any parts that are exposed. But you should save most of that for your phone conversation. While there are many different options for contraception, only condoms will protect you and your partner from sexually transmitted infections STIs and HIV. You don't have to say anything X-rated right away. You can do this at any point while you're talking dirty. He was slow and sensual. Remember that if you do move from anal sex to vaginal sex you should put on a new condom to make sure you do not infect the vagina with bacteria. Once you've both orgasmed, you can say goodbye and look forward to your next dirty talk date. You may feel a bit silly or intimidated at the thought of talking dirty on the phone, but once you adjust your mindset and let loose, you'll be on your way to making your phone partner helpless with pleasure. Start talking about all of the things you wish your lover would do to your body until you're both bursting with excitement.
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