But among older women who are widowed, divorced, or single, finding a partner can be difficult. My husband and I have experimented with oral sex since reading the book. Often less preoccupied with performance, they can express their affection and closeness in other ways, such as cuddling, kissing, and stroking. In the AARP study, only 32 percent of women 70 or older have partners, compared with 59 percent of men in the same age group. This form of oral sex may not be for everyone, especially for partners who are disproportionate in height, but true 69 aficionados cite the very special experience of mutual oral sexual stimulation in glowing terms. My husband of nearly 50 years and I had never tried oral sex until we read your book, Seasoned Romance. That said, if you or your wife have any question about whether you might be transmitting a disease through sex, oral or otherwise, it's best to be tested and examined by a competent physician. First, senior sex in any form is wonderful, and many say it is actually more fulfilling as you get older.
My first husband never asked or offered oral sex, and we were pretty good in the sack. As with performing fellatio on a man, cunnilingus should involve excellent personal hygiene. Many males enjoy this as foreplay before sexual intercourse, or it may also be performed until orgasm and ejaculation of semen. The woman receiving cunnilingus ideally lets her lover know what feels good either through words or sounds. Also, when people use the term 69 when talking about oral sex, what does that mean? Also, bear in mind that giving oral sex and receiving your partner's ejaculate in your mouth doesn't have to come as a package deal for any lover who finds it distasteful. I read your book, Seasoned Romance, and have one major question. Some studies also suggest that the supplement ginkgo biloba, which increases circulation, can help treat impotence, but others show no such effect. Jack Parlow, a retired clinical psychologist in Toronto. Now, as to your main question. Seniors can devote more time and energy to improving their love lives. If we do mutual or side-by-side self pleasuring, that's great, too. One advantage of growing older is that personal relationships can take on increased importance as children and careers take a backseat. Seniors should see a physician if they've lost interest in sex or are having sexual difficulties. Bush's wife quipped, "Clinton lied. Why does there have to be such an emphasis on oral sex? Fellatio has been increasingly recognized as a viable alternative to intercourse for older lovers, especially when physical difficulties make intercourse possible. This "partner gap" greatly inhibits women's social and sexual activity as they reach their senior years. The same cannot be said for women, and those whom we have interviewed in the past usually say something similar to one of these four categories: We get this question often, more often from senior women than men, and it's certainly a topic that comes up more often than you can imagine among men and women over A clear majority of men and women age 45 and up say a satisfying sexual relationship is important to the quality of life, according to a survey by the AARP the organization formerly known as the American Association of Retired Persons. Second, you can get and give pleasure orally in ways you never could through vaginal intercourse not that you can't do both! Has anyone else ever asked you this question? Our love life is very warm. My husband, since reading your book, loves oral sex. As a man ages, for example, he is sometimes slower to get an erection, and many times, even at the height of passion, the erection isn't as rigid or dependable as when he was 18, 38 or even
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